Quick update.
We are making a valiant effort to see each other as much as we can - an the frequency of our visits has really jumped.
I am careful not to press him about his decision, as he doesn't need more pressure. I try to be very supportive of all the steps he is taking. He has noticed, and appreciates it. The other night when I made an off hand comment about not wanting to be a nag... (I'm very committed to never being a nag!) there was alarm in his voice when he said, "You could never be a nag. I can't even imagine it. You are so supportive."
I think he really is crazy about me... and I've had moments of thinking that I might be falling in love with him. But the complications could overwhelm all of that - and that is what I am afraid of.
I'm really working on leaving this in God's capable hands.
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4 comments:
Wow! Lots going on in 'relationship-land'! Things are good, but getting complicated. Stay rooted in your identity in Christ, yah ;D
Julie
I love hearing your story and I'm so excited for this journey!
Woo hoo! Keep enjoying it moment by moment.
When we were in pre-marital councseling we were told that nagging begins at three - The first time you talk/ask about something is just that - the first time. The second time is a nice reminder (as long as it's in a nice way!!). But the third time??? That's nagging.
Not sure if it applies to your situation or not, but its the main thing that has stuck in this blond head of mine all these years. That said, I have at times said, "I know I'm naggin now, but did you remember xxx".
And I love it that you are leaving it in God's hands! And yes, there are very capable!!
Keep enjoying the times you're together!
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