tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8987305.post2980153512115177205..comments2023-05-06T08:45:27.865-06:00Comments on Single Solitary Things: How About Retro Dating?TRShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09801686710086039781noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8987305.post-44260080665397790712012-06-11T20:26:39.342-06:002012-06-11T20:26:39.342-06:00Anonymous,
You are cordially invited to butt out i...Anonymous,<br />You are cordially invited to butt out if you can't use kinder, gentler words to express your thoughts.<br /><br />I was not even that interested in this guy... I just find it remarkably rude, and you know jackassy... to not only blow off the date.... but to compound it with a lie by suggesting he wanted to get back in my good graces. <br /><br />FYI, yes - I've read "He's Just Not That Into You" and it pretty much lets guys off the hook for their bad behavior. <br /><br />I mean... why can't they just man up and say, "You know, I think I'm not interested." - maybe men need to know that most women are not fragile little flowers who are going to fall apart. We know men's egos can't handle rejection... but we're women, we're tougher than that, and honest rejection is better than a pack of lies. <br /><br />So sure, your favorite little book may have a handful of good takeaways from the male mind there... but I certainly don't endorse a book that purports it's okay to blow a woman off and lie about one's intentions.TRShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09801686710086039781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8987305.post-18834065146606550872012-06-05T18:43:42.301-06:002012-06-05T18:43:42.301-06:00just read"he's not that in to yoy" ...just read"he's not that in to yoy" it was written for you:-) I take it by the anger in your post that he never called you back. BIG SURPRISE!! I am sorry. I would like to see you married and happy. BUT.......marriage won't make u happy. you have to do that single and then MAYBE a man will see your worth. I fully expect you to delete this post but please know I am only trying to point out the obvious. I've been where u are. AS A FEMALEAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8987305.post-90926439901301617152012-06-05T13:02:10.305-06:002012-06-05T13:02:10.305-06:00Hey anonymous… Be nice would you?
Where did I say...Hey anonymous… Be nice would you? <br />Where did I say anything about chasing him? I did not. I was merely making a commentary on the stupidity of relying on technology for communication. It's a pretty simple thesis – perhaps you should go back and take a remedial reading comprehension course. <br /><br />I write this blog to provide a forum for other seeking and single women to know that we're not alone. If you don't feel the camaraderie here, you are welcome to stop reading. Why are you so invested in this? (I still think you're Pablo, who is still too coward to use his name or a blogspot ID) <br /><br />The other point of this post is call men out on their bad behavior. It was very rude of him to make a date and then blow it off with a word to me. I'm not even that interested him, but he's very nice and sweet and so I was going to give him a chance. He ought to be grateful for that opportunity. <br /><br />See, anonymous, I think you're a guy who is really uncomfortable with the fact that women (as evidenced on this blog) can read through the BS you all are laying down…. The lame excuses that technology didn't work… and then pretending that you really are man enough to man up… when you have no intention of ever behaving like a worthwhile man. <br />Maybe that's why you weigh in here, even though you seem to hate everything I say. <br /><br />Also, learn how to spell YOU. This isn't texting, you can use the whole alphabet.TRShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09801686710086039781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8987305.post-67712264415567650302012-06-03T20:01:36.932-06:002012-06-03T20:01:36.932-06:00STOP TRYING SO HARD!! U need to read "he'...STOP TRYING SO HARD!! U need to read "he's not really that into u" u deserve a man that wants u. if he is texting u HE HAS UR NUMBER!!! he would call if he really wanted to. you seem to be. great gal.......let someone chase u and stop worrying about whether he is "the one"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com